Regardless of whether one is Christian, or indeed whether one subscribes to any recognised faith the festive period offers a chance for everyone to come into the moment through relaxation and a degree of reflection and forward thinking.
Of course, for many, much thought and planning goes into Christmas day itself and traditionally it is the time for exchanging gifts. Whilst this is the overbearing focus I thought worth mentioning that it is also a good time to focus on things that we already have.
It is so easy to take for granted all the good things in our life or to place too much emphasis on the things that we want to have. We are all guilty of "nit picking" at our partners or dreaming away our time thinking of our next holiday when often the best present we can have is the present.
There is much joy to be found in what is already there and we all have had our wake up calls, but perhaps mine has been the equivalent of someone shouting this message into my ear.
It is not my intention to preach though it is obvious that we all have love around us, which is often not expressed or which is taken for granted and it is love which binds us together.
Religion aside, the festive season is an opportunity to share and to feel that love between us all and I hope that feeling remains as special for you as it does for me.
I have always considered myself to be lucky & blessed, even when things that appear to be 'bad' happen to me. I feel very much the same as you this year and I am very thankful that we have such a wonderful family.
ReplyDeleteLots of love from your sister, Tricky Crow.
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What a thoughtful post Swordfish. I will re read it again and take on board its content.
ReplyDeleteHave just seen your sisters comment and on first glance did not see the r in her surname. Had to do a double take !
Rgds.,
Hill.
I don't know... I pop down stairs for a little while thinking I'm leaving you to snooze and you end up on the blog again.
ReplyDeleteYou are just so beautiful and I love you deeply x
Whilst you were 'resting' , kitten and I were speaking. U are both so strong and am sending you both seasons greetings and wish you all a memorable family time this Christmas.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you both and obviously my two little mini m's!!
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Hello again Rumps
ReplyDeleteYour comments are so true, and indeed touching. I too am lucky enough to have a loving family whom I will be spending christmas with. Its a time to cherish those moments, as time moves on for us all, and its what we make of that time which is important, ie carpe diem has always been my motto.
I truly hope you are able to build up your strength to be able to have some quality time over the festive period.
My thoughts are with you my friend, and your strength of character is truly amazing through the adversity you face.
You are a special person, but its obvious your family know that already.
Take care
Triple Witcher
Haha. I certainly wouldn't choose a bovine nickname. Crows are much more fun. T.C.
ReplyDeleteI have always tried to teach my children "The Eccentric Golfer" and "Roxy," not to be too materialistic. I always taught them that the greatest pleasure of having something is wanting it. I think they have grown up to realise that love and happiness is paramount.
ReplyDeleteLove you lots Lindylu XXXXXX
ever my inspiration little man ... i will dj on space terrace next year im practising :) coatred xxxx
ReplyDeleteI am so blessed and so proud to be your mam. My love to always. Cymraes X
ReplyDeleteYou inspire love from a complete stranger... such is the power of your words and your honesty. I hope you are able to keep faith (whatever your faith may be) as it may help you to look forward without the fear. Could I do it? Honestly, I don't know, but if it helps you that's all that matters right now.
ReplyDeleteHoping and praying that you have some respite during Christmas so you can enjoy your wonderful family.
Diana